Relationship & Marriage Problems

may be Caused by Commands

Inserted into the Brain during

Alien or Military Abduction

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When I first met Michael at an alternative science conference, and looked into his eyes, I felt that he might be the man for me. And yet often at times after that day, there seemed to be an unusually large amount of suppressed rage inside of him. This rage would erupt occasionally and we would then have large arguments. After knowing him for a while, I offered him some clearing sessions using a biofeedback meter, in an attempt to rid him of this anger.

After a number of sessions, his anger reduced so much and his personality improved to the extent that when he asked me to marry him, I accepted. We married in Australia August 1997 and then moved to the USA. We have now been happily married for eight years. During that time we have had a lot of fun, a lot of growth and a lot of support for each other. My most important criteria for a relationship was that it was “never boring” at the same time that it supported my major life goal – and it has certainly never been boring!

However, the road has not always been smooth. Michael continued to improve over the years with more and more clearing sessions and kinesiology.

Michael was previously pretty much of a loner, with very little luck with relationships. We discovered that this was partly due to implanted commands which had been given to him deliberately to keep him on his own. How these commands work, and how you can locate and remove them from the brain are described at the Synergistic Kinesiology website and here.

The commands he had been given which related to relationships included included:

  • “You can’t trust anyone” (given by the doctor).
  • “You have no friends”
  • “Women are sluts”
  • “You don’t need anyone”
  • “Women don’t interest you”

And various implants regarding sex, which are in “The Mars Records” Book One, and some commands which affected his testosterone levels which are in “The Mars Records” Book Two. (See A few months after the testosterone commands were removed, Michael’s testosterone levels rose from those of LESS THAN A 90+ YEAR OLD MAN when he was 45 years old, to the level of a 20–29 YEAR OLD. In addition, we found that he then had more DHEA than a TWENTY YEAR OLD!!!!

I began to come to the realization that many people I knew who had great problems with relationships were also the ones with the most metaphysical abilities. I had always presumed that somehow having metaphysical abilities made having a relationship difficult. I began to see this differently – having metaphysical abilities means that one is highly likely to have been abducted, and also to have been given commands to keep one on one’s own.

I tested this out with two close friends of mine, a man and a woman. There was no connection between these two. They are two of the most metaphysically gifted people I know. Both had been deliberately given commands to prevent them having a relationship. The woman had been given the following commands:

  • Relationships are crap (from reptilians)

When we removed this command, beings that I call “Emissaries of Lucifer” started interfering with the session. They created a hook from that person to another dimension. This is very damaging and makes the person feel terrible. This was interesting as this woman was not a Christian and I don’t think she thought about whether or not Lucifer exists. Although she does believe in God. Michael removed the interference with deliverance and I then removed the following:

  • Men cause suffering (from insectoids)
  • Your heart is bound (from ceremonial magicians – We learned this term from Bill Schnoebelen. These are humans who have done so much black magic that they become so demonized that the body no longer recognizes them as human, as indicated by muscle testing).
  • Love kills you (from Draconians) (This last one was a particularly nasty command to be given).

Within seven months of removing these commands, this woman started dating a man who she felt was her soul mate.

The man likewise had commands to be on his own. Up until then he had been a serial dater for years. He became happily engaged to be married within eight months of these commands being removed.

Recently we had another breakthrough. We had dinner with a friend of ours and at that dinner met a man who I will name Peter. Peter and Michael seemed to hit it off immediately, which is not always the case. I myself also really enjoyed the evening. After Peter went home, Michael and I shared our thoughts of Peter with each other – that we both felt he had been to Mars.

The next morning I felt GREAT. I had tons of energy. I felt that I could do tons of work. Although I normally had a fair amount of energy, this day was extra special. I hadn’t felt that good in years. Then I asked Michael an ordinary question – I asked him for a phone number of a person we had met recently. He then did what he had done to me on some other occasions – he said curtly that I was ‘always giving him orders’ and psychically ‘zapped’ me.

If you have read “The Mars Records” which are available for free from you may remember that Michael was mind controlled and used by the military as a Tactical Remote Viewer. This involved using his metaphysical abilities in an offensive as well as defensive way. On occasion, a tiny amount of that offensive energy would leak out and knock me out of balance, especially because I naturally did not have any barriers up between us to protect me from him, and because I am also fairly sensitive to others emotions. (That is, I am an ‘empath’).

After Michael “zapped’ me, my head felt like it was full of cotton wool, and I became very tired. Because I had felt SO good before Michael zapped me, and I felt SO awful afterwards, I began to wonder how much this had been going on in our marriage. Often when I had been tired, I had put it down to getting older, rather than to anything related to Michael’s programming.

I felt that somehow Michael had been doing something to me on an energetic level ever since we had been married, and that for some reason he stopped doing that while we were with Peter. That was why I felt so good that night and the next morning until Michael zapped me.

I started a clearing session on the biofeedback meter with Michael, but got no results.

Then we looked for Wernicke’s commands and got the jackpot. We found and removed the following nine wernicke’s commands:

  • “Zap those you love”

  • “Zap your friends”

  • “Don’t zap your comrades”

  • “Suppress your loved ones”

  • “Suppress your friends”

  • “Don’t suppress your comrades”

  • “Swat your loved ones”. (It took a while to find this one. We discovered that the term ‘swat’ is jargon which is used on Mars to mean ‘psychic zapping’).

  • “Swat your friends”

  • “Don’t swat your comrades”

This was amazing! This explained why we had had some of the problems we had. And it also explained why I felt so great during the dinner with Peter – because he was a ‘comrade’, and therefore Michael’s programming was turned off (‘don’t zap your comrades’), until the next morning when Peter was gone.

We believe that anyone who has advanced metapysical abilities and has problems with relationships has similar programming by the people or beings who abduct and mind control them.

Why do ‘they’ want some people to never have a relationship, or at least a good one, you may wonder? We can think of a number of answers:

  • They want to have access to you 24 hours a day.

  • It’s easier for you to get free when you have a partner living with you – your partner gives you feedback, such as changes in your personality, points out weird things that happen around you etc.

  • Your partner will notice if you are gone. So the controllers have to go to more trouble when abducting you (such as put the partner to sleep, use time travel etc.)

  • Some people are abducted by human agents entering their house, rather than by teleportation or hypergate. That is why we recommend portable hotel door locks on every door of the residence. This obviously becomes much harder with a partner present.

  • The partner may pursue paths of personal growth, and encourage you to do the same. This may result in you getting your memories back and even preventing the abductions and ending the mind control.

  • You may eventually go on to have a happy marriage and have children with extraordinary metaphysical abilities. This would require you doing something to stop them from ever being abducted (such as changing the Quantum Matrix inside everyone in the family twice a week – see The Mars Records Book 2 Appendices). You would also do lots of other good things for your children like removing all toxins from the body of both parents for several years before conceiving, having a home birth in a water tank to avoid trauma, doctors and drugs, not circumcising your sons to avoid further trauma associated with women, breastfeeding for at least two years (until your child has teeth) while you eat only good food, never drinking water with flouride which calcifies the pineal gland, never vaccinating and even home schooling to avoid mind control from outdated school systems and the thinking of the sheeple in the schools.

The above commands were not all that we uncovered in that session. Wernicke’s commands, and indeed all kinesiology corrections, occur as though they are ‘layers of an onion’. That is, you cannot discover and remove priority No. 2 until you discovered and removed priority No. One.

Over the years I had looked for the ‘normal’ type wernicke’s commands which most people have hundreds of. I was seldom able to find any on Michael, which did not make sense to me.

However, ONCE I REMOVED THE ABOVE NINE COMMANDS, suddenly the body presented TWENTY ‘normal’ type commands which affected his relationships. They are ‘normal’ in that they were not implanted intentionally. They came from parents, friends, workmates, society etc. Michael was not previously aware that he had these as unconscious programming. These were:

  • Fight back

  • You never listen

  • You’re thick

  • Men make decisions

  • It’s your fault

  • It’s not my fault

  • It’s their fault

  • It wasn’t my fault

  • She’s to blame

  • Girls cause problems

  • If there’s a way to mess up your life, a woman will find a way (from a guy in the Navy)

  • Woman are trouble

  • Girls are trouble

  • Women cause problems

  • Only men should command

  • Only men should give orders

  • Women are irresponsible

  • Women screw up things

  • Women are crazy

  • Women are insane

This list may seem extreme, but if you do enough wernicke’s commands on enough people, I think you will get to see, as I have done, that most people have dozens of similar commands in their brain. That is a major reason why there are so few happy, long lasting marriages these days.

Remember, most people pick these up accidentally – they are not put in DELIBERATELY. If a mind controller, whether human, alien or reptilian, puts any commands in deliberately, then the commands have much more power, because they are implanted with force.

After we removed these 20 commands, we also did deliverance on:

  • Something in his mind called a ‘grinder’ which does a very low, continuous zap to other people at all times

  • A very low level energy vacuum, to suck energy off others (thereby making them not want to hang around him)

So, if you have problems with relationships, I highly recommend that you receive the Wernicke’s correction and search out as many commands as possible. The best thing to do is to learn Synergistic Kinesiology and then do the Wernicke’s correction on another so that you can swap sessions. See the Synergistic Kinesiology website. Also, see if you have any of the nine wernicke’s commands that Michael did. Then check again for any other commands.

Please note that as well as programming many people to NOT have relationships, they sometimes also program people to HAVE relationships with the wrong people. This can be for breeding purposes, or to set a person up with someone who is also controlled or who controls you, so that they can carry out their various schemes. Or to weaken you by setting you up with someone who is not your equal psychically. Or to study emotions – the possibilities are endless. There is more information on this at

If you have not yet read “The Mars Records” Books One and Two, and “The Mars Force – Pat’s Story” Books One and Two, I highly recommend that you do so, to learn more about wernicke’s commands. These are free to download from

To help you create and/or recognise your ideal relationship, please read:

Please read also:

Why Abductees are Usually Poor

Kinesiology for Abductees

How to Stop Alien and Military Abduction

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